Artificial insemination is a procedure wherein sperm are directly injected through a woman's cervix and into her uterus to improve her chances of conceiving. The sperm may be that of a husband, partner, family member, friend or anonymous donor. Choosing a sperm donor is one of the most challenging decisions a woman will ever make.
Instructions
1. Decide how well you want to know the donor. Do you want this person to be in the child's life? Do you want the child to meet him after she turns 18? Would you rather the person be a complete stranger? Decide what level of emotional involvement you want with the donor first. Many sperm banks allow their donors to allow children who turn 18 to contact them, or to remain anonymous.
2. Examine the medical history. Anonymous donors at sperm banks are required to provide a medical history. Expect the same if you choose a donor that is also a friend or family member. Look at the potential donor's current diseases and health problems, as well as their family's medical history. Narrow your search to healthy individuals.
3. Consider appearance (skip to Step 4 if looks do not concern you). There's no guarantee on what genes get passed down from parents to children, but if you're hoping for a blue-eyed child, you will have a better chance if you choose a blue-eyed donor. Search through your healthy list of potential donors to find individuals whose physical characteristics you are most interested in.
4. Consider education level and interests. Sperm banks list these details along with looks and physical health. Again, there are no guarantees. However, if you are a musician and want a child who is likely to be one as well, choosing another musician will increase your chances more than choosing an accountant.
Tags: medical history, family member, want child