Dealing with autism is never an easy thing, but when you have an autistic brother or sister, you face a unique set of challenges and setbacks. You may resent your sibling for getting all the attention but at the same time have an overwhelming desire to protect him from the outside world. These feelings are just a few of the things you have to deal with.
Instructions
1. Learn all you can about the condition. The scientific community is still learning about the causes and treatments surrounding autism, so it's important that you make it a point to learn as much as you can about your sibling's condition. Even younger children can benefit from books aimed at helping them understand what's going on with their sibling.
2. Understand that autism is no one's fault. At times, it may be easier to point blame at a sibling who's different. You may wish that she were just normal, and that you had a family life like others around you. At times like this, remind yourself that no one chooses to suffer from autism, and that your family is unique and special.
3. Practice communicating with your sibling. While autistic children and adults have trouble in certain social situations, they usually have strong bonds to family members. You'll find a special way to communicate with your sibling and learn what sorts of things set him off or make him uncomfortable. When in public, do your best to keep your sibling calm and relaxed to avoid an outburst. Tell him often that you love him. While he may not return the sentiment, he knows deep down that you care.
4. Stand up for her. The world can be a cruel place, and there will be times where you have to defend your sibling against bullies and those who don't understand.
5. Have fun. If your 18-year old autistic brother enjoys playing with blocks, then get down on the floor and build a castle with him. There are no rules against having fun with your autistic sibling, so don't be afraid to act silly and have fun together.
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